A slice of multi-layered strawberry cake with fresh strawberry pieces and white frosting, served on a white plate.

A Scandalous Slice: Addressing the Uproar Over My Holiday Cake

A slice of multi-layered strawberry cake with fresh strawberry pieces and white frosting, served on a white plate.

I never imagined that my Thanksgiving cake recipe, a triumph of confectionery indulgence, would stir up such a whirlwind of comments. But here we are, in the eye of a sugary storm, where my creation has been both adored and admonished for its caloric, sugar, and fat content. It’s a cake, after all – an indulgent, Thanksgiving cake. It’s not meant to be a daily snack, but rather the crowning glory of a day dedicated to gastronomic excess. And let me tell you, it was divine!

However, the feedback I received got me thinking. Why was my cake, a once-a-year treat, under such nutritional scrutiny? Curiosity piqued, I delved into the world of online food blogging to see if others faced similar critique. And what I discovered was nothing short of astonishing.

As I sifted through various renowned food blogs, I noticed a curious trend. Many bloggers only listed nutritional facts for their cake recipes, conveniently leaving out the frosting – the literal icing on the cake, where a significant chunk of the calories lurk. Insert my shocked face here. Others played a portion-size game, suggesting their cakes serve 24 or even 36 people, thus miraculously shrinking the per-serving calorie count.

And here I was, naively believing that honesty was the best policy, stating that my decadent cake served a mere 10 people. But as I learned, in the world of online food blogging, transparency about your triple-layer chocolate ganache cake might just be a recipe for controversy.

Let’s slice deeper into this cake conundrum.

The Portion Size Illusion

Firstly, the portion size manipulation is a clever ruse. By claiming a cake serves more than the average Thanksgiving gathering, the nutritional facts per serving become almost laughable. A slice for 36? Unless you’re feeding a congregation of calorie-conscious mice, these serving sizes are pure fantasy.

But the real kicker? Even with these minuscule portions, the cakes are still rich, sugary, and undeniably delicious. So, why the pretense? Are we trying to assuage our guilt by playing a numbers game? It seems like the world of dessert blogging has become less about indulgence and more about illusion.

The Frosting Fallout

The exclusion of frosting from nutritional facts is another masterstroke of selective disclosure. Let’s be real – frosting is the heart and soul of most cakes. It’s what turns a plain sponge into a celebration. But by omitting this, bloggers present a skewed version of their culinary creations.

As for my cake, I included the frosting in the nutritional breakdown because, in my world, a cake without frosting is like a birthday without a song – incomplete and slightly disappointing. Yet, this decision seemingly catapulted my cake into a different stratosphere of scrutiny.

The Reality of Indulgence

Amidst this scandalous discovery, I’ve come to a realization. We are in an era of health-consciousness, where every morsel of food is analyzed for its nutritional value. But in this pursuit of health, have we forgotten the joy of occasional indulgence? My Thanksgiving cake was never meant to be a health food. It was a celebration, a once-a-year splurge designed to delight and satisfy, not to conform to dietary guidelines.

The backlash I received for my honest approach highlights a broader issue in our relationship with food. We are torn between the desire to indulge and the pressure to conform to health standards. But here’s the thing – it’s okay to have your cake and eat it too, as long as it’s done in moderation.

Embracing the Indulgence

So, to everyone who loved my cake for what it was – a decadent, joyous celebration of flavor – thank you. To the critics, I understand your concerns, but I urge you to remember the essence of holidays like Thanksgiving. They are about togetherness, celebration, and yes, sometimes, a little overindulgence.

In the end, it’s about balance. Enjoy the cake, but also enjoy your salads, your smoothies, and your workouts. Life is too short to always count calories, especially on Thanksgiving.

A Piece of Advice

To my fellow food bloggers, let’s be real with our readers. If we’re making a cake that’s rich, let’s own it. If it’s a lighter option, great, but let’s not mask the reality of our recipes in a veil of nutritional number-crunching. Food is meant to be enjoyed in all its forms – healthy, indulgent, and everything in between.

The Final Crumb

As for my controversial cake, it will remain a staple of my Thanksgiving tradition. It’s a reminder that sometimes, breaking the health-o-meter is just a part of celebrating life’s special moments. And for those moments, I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Grandmom Jean’s Buttercream

Brad
My grandmother made the best butter cream I've ever tasted. She always claimed it was given to her by the chef at the Waldorf-Astoria. We'll never know if that's true but this is a wonderful traditional flavored buttercream that virtually compliments almost any type of cake.
5 from 1 vote
Prep Time 15 minutes
Cook Time 10 minutes
Course Dessert
Cuisine American
Servings 1 Slice
Calories 292 kcal

Ingredients
  

  • 2 cups milk
  • ½ cup + 2 tablespoons of flour
  • 1 cup granulated sugar
  • 1 cup butter 2 sticks, softened
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

Instructions
 

Cook the Base:

  • In a medium saucepan, whisk together the milk and flour until smooth.
  • Place the saucepan over medium heat and cook, stirring constantly, until the mixture becomes thick and starts to bubble.
  • Reduce the heat to low and cook for an additional 2 minutes, then remove from heat.
  • Allow the mixture to cool completely at room temperature, but not cold.

Cream the Butter and Sugar:

  • In a large bowl, cream together the granulated sugar and softened butter until light and fluffy. This can be done with a hand mixer or a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment.
  • Add the vanilla extract and mix until well combined.

Combine the Mixtures:

  • Gradually add the cooled milk and flour mixture to the creamed butter and sugar.
  • Beat the mixture on a high speed until it is well combined, creamy, and holds stiff peaks.

Final Steps:

  • If the buttercream seems separated at first, continue beating until it comes together.
  • Once the buttercream is smooth and well-combined, chill it slightly before using for easier spreading.
  • Enjoy using this buttercream to frost cakes, cupcakes, or any other dessert that calls for a touch of sweetness and tradition.

Nutrition

Serving: 1sliceCalories: 292kcalCarbohydrates: 28.4gProtein: 2.6gFat: 19.5gSaturated Fat: 12.3gCholesterol: 53mgSodium: 154mgFiber: 0.2gSugar: 22.3gCalcium: 65mg
Keyword buttercream, cake, dessert, Frosting, icing
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A mason jar filled with homemade stock is placed on a wooden table next to a kitchen towel with a 'Farm Fresh Organic' print featuring a pig and a chicken. The towel has a rustic checkerboard border. The amber hue of the stock indicates a rich, flavorful broth, and the jar is marked with measurements, suggesting the stock is freshly made and ready for use or storage.

Homemade Stock: A Flavorful Kitchen Staple

A mason jar filled with homemade stock is placed on a wooden table next to a kitchen towel with a 'Farm Fresh Organic' print featuring a pig and a chicken. The towel has a rustic checkerboard border. The amber hue of the stock indicates a rich, flavorful broth, and the jar is marked with measurements, suggesting the stock is freshly made and ready for use or storage.

Thanksgiving was just last week, and one of my favorite post-holiday rituals involves a turkey – not just any part of it, but the bones. There’s something almost therapeutic about carefully stripping all the meat from the turkey bones, ensuring nothing goes to waste. I then carefully package these bones and tuck them into my freezer. This isn’t just a quirky habit; it’s a crucial step in preparing one of my most cherished kitchen staples – homemade stock. The transformation of these humble bones into a rich, flavorful stock always feels like a culinary magic trick, turning something ordinary into something extraordinary.

Homemade stock is the unsung hero in the kitchen, a secret ingredient that elevates dishes from good to great. It’s incredibly versatile, seamlessly substituting for water in almost any recipe, infusing depth and flavor into everything from soups to risottos (though I’d draw the line at using it in a cake recipe). My friends often tease me about my collection of bones in the freezer, finding it a bit odd. But they were genuinely surprised when, a few weeks ago at a dinner party, I eagerly asked to take home two chicken carcasses destined for the trash. To me, it was a treasure trove destined for my stockpot. I firmly believe in the superiority of homemade stock over store-bought varieties, which often lack the richness and depth of flavor that home cooking provides.

To start, I raid the fridge for ingredients, not getting too fussy about it. I use whatever fresh or frozen vegetable scraps I’ve saved, along with chicken bones and a handful of seasonings. In the picture below, you’ll see my lineup: carrots, peppercorns, coriander seeds, bay leaves, garlic cloves, onions, celery, and a little bit of salt. You can choose to omit the salt or add a bit now; I prefer to keep it light at this stage and adjust later when cooking.

I use a large, heavy stockpot, adding leftover chicken or turkey — it’s totally fine if there’s still some meat and skin attached; it only adds more flavor. Honestly, you can’t mess this up.

The secret to a great stock is to avoid boiling it. Bring it to a gentle simmer and let it cook for 4-6 hours on the stove. This slow process extracts all the rich flavors and nutrients.

Once done, remove all the solid ingredients and strain the stock through a sieve. Then, refrigerate it for 24-48 hours. This cooling period allows any fat to rise to the top and solidify, making it easy to remove.

As for storage, homemade stock can last in different ways:

  • Refrigerated: It can be kept for up to a week. Make sure it’s in a sealed container.
  • Frozen: Freeze it in ice cube trays or containers for up to 6 months. This method is great for portioning out stock for future use.
  • Canning: If you’re into canning, pressure canning homemade stock can preserve it for up to a year. It’s a bit more involved but worth it for long-term storage.

Homemade stock is not just a recipe; it’s a sustainable practice that reduces food waste and enhances your cooking. Happy stock-making!

A mason jar filled with homemade stock is placed on a wooden table next to a kitchen towel with a 'Farm Fresh Organic' print featuring a pig and a chicken. The towel has a rustic checkerboard border. The amber hue of the stock indicates a rich, flavorful broth, and the jar is marked with measurements, suggesting the stock is freshly made and ready for use or storage.

Homemade Stock (Chicken or Turkey)

Brad
Enjoy your homemade stock in soups, sauces, gravies, or any recipe that calls for liquid. Each time you make it, you'll be adding a touch of love and flavor to your meals that simply can't be bought in a store.
5 from 1 vote
Prep Time 1 day
Cook Time 6 hours
Course Soup
Cuisine American
Servings 8 Quarts
Calories 33 kcal

Ingredients
  

  • Bones from a chicken or turkey carcass
  • 3-4 large carrots washed and cut into large chunks
  • 2 onions halved with skins on
  • 1 teaspoon coriander seeds
  • 1 teaspoon black peppercorns
  • 3-4 celery stalks cut into large pieces
  • 1 garlic clove halved with skin on
  • 2 bay leaves
  • Kosher salt to taste optional

Instructions
 

  • Prep the Bones: If you haven't already, strip any excess meat from your poultry bones. It's fine to leave some meat and skin on as they add flavor to the stock. Place the bones in a large heavy-bottomed stockpot.
  • Combine Ingredients: Add the cut carrots, onions, celery, and garlic to the pot with the bones. Sprinkle in the coriander seeds, black peppercorns, and bay leaves. If you're using salt, add a pinch or two according to your preference. Remember, it's easier to add salt to your dishes later than to remove it from the stock.
  • Cover with Water: Pour cold water into the pot, enough to just cover the bones and vegetables. The cold water will ensure that the stock comes out clear and not cloudy.
  • Slowly Bring to a Simmer: Place the pot on the stove over medium heat and slowly bring the mixture to a gentle simmer. This will take some time, but it's important not to rush it. You’re looking for small bubbles to occasionally rise to the surface, not a rolling boil.
  • Simmer: Once you’ve achieved a gentle simmer, reduce the heat to low. Allow the stock to simmer uncovered for 4-6 hours. Skim any foam or impurities that rise to the top with a ladle or spoon.
  • Strain the Stock: After the stock has simmered and is rich in color and flavor, remove it from the heat. Set a fine-mesh sieve over another large pot or bowl and carefully pour the stock through to strain out the solid ingredients.
  • Cool and Skim Fat: Let the stock cool to room temperature, then refrigerate it for 24-48 hours. This will allow the fat to solidify on the surface, making it easy to skim off.
  • Store: Once the fat has been removed, the stock can be portioned into storage containers. Refrigerate what you'll use within a week, and freeze any excess for up to 6 months. If you're canning, make sure to follow proper canning guidelines to ensure safety.
  • Note: Feel free to adjust the quantities of vegetables and seasonings to suit your taste or the size of your pot. The beauty of homemade stock is that it's very forgiving and adaptable.

Nutrition

Serving: 8ozCalories: 33kcalCarbohydrates: 1gProtein: 2gFat: 1gCholesterol: 1mg
Keyword stock
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Rich and moist carrot cake topped with creamy cheese frosting, toasted pecans, and a drizzle of golden maple syrup, served on a white plate.

Boxed Carrot Cake Miracle: A Thanksgiving Triumph

Rich and moist carrot cake topped with creamy cheese frosting, toasted pecans, and a drizzle of golden maple syrup, served on a white plate.

Thanksgiving has come and gone, and the dessert that stole the spotlight at our family table this year was none other than a carrot cake – with a twist.

As the holiday bustle had me scribbling endless to-do lists, my partner Sean, ever so eager to help, mistook my ‘to-make’ carrot cake as a ‘to-buy’ item. Returning from the grocery store, he proudly presented a boxed carrot cake mix. Initially taken aback – after all, boxed mixes are not typically my go-to – I found myself embracing the challenge. Why not take this as an opportunity to get creative?

Turning a standard boxed mix into a dessert worthy of a Thanksgiving table was surprisingly simple yet incredibly rewarding. I enhanced the mix with extra dashes of cinnamon and ginger for a warm, spiced flavor profile. Freshly grated carrots and a touch of crushed pineapple added moisture and depth. Substituting buttermilk for the liquid called for on the box created a tender crumb that no one could believe came from a premade mix.

However, the road to this delectable cake was not without its mishaps. My attempt at candied walnuts turned into a bitter disappointment, quite literally. Determined, I tried again, only to end up with a smoky kitchen and a burnt batch. In the chaos, the walnuts found their way outside, nearly becoming an unexpected treat for Leia, our ever-curious dog. Disaster averted, I opted for a simpler yet just as elegant topping: lightly toasted pecans.

The cake, dressed in a sumptuous cream cheese frosting and adorned with meringue powder-based royal icing piping, was a vision of indulgence. Each slice was a harmonious symphony of flavors and textures, from the crunchy pecans to the luscious frosting, all brought together with a generous drizzle of Maine maple syrup right before serving.

This carrot cake stood as a testament to the joy and pride we can find in our homes, a reminder that sometimes, the most memorable dishes come from the most unexpected beginnings. And as our family shared laughter and stories over this sweet centerpiece, it was clear that this cake was so much more than the sum of its parts. It was a celebration of tradition, of improvisation, and of the magic that can be found in the heart of the home – the kitchen.

Here are some other tips to enhace a boxed carrot cake mix

  1. Enhance the Spices: Add an extra teaspoon of cinnamon, a half teaspoon of nutmeg, and a quarter teaspoon of ground ginger to deepen the flavors.
  2. Include Extras: Fold in a half cup of grated fresh carrots and a quarter cup of crushed pineapple (drained) for moisture and a flavor boost.
  3. Add Nuts and Raisins: Stir in a quarter cup of chopped walnuts or pecans and a quarter cup of raisins or dried cranberries for texture.
  4. Upgrade the Oil: Replace the oil with an equal amount of melted butter for a richer taste, or use coconut oil for a unique twist.
  5. Buttermilk Instead of Water: Substitute any water called for on the box with buttermilk to add a tangy richness to the cake.
  6. Top It Off: After baking, top the cake with a homemade cream cheese frosting and a sprinkle of toasted coconut or orange zest for garnish.
  7. Infuse Flavor: Add a teaspoon of vanilla extract or a splash of bourbon to the batter for an extra layer of flavor.

These simple additions can make a box mix taste closer to a cake made from scratch.

Rich and moist carrot cake topped with creamy cheese frosting, toasted pecans, and a drizzle of golden maple syrup, served on a white plate.

Maple Pecan Carrot Cake

Brad
Rich and moist carrot cake topped with creamy cheese frosting, toasted pecans, and a drizzle of golden maple syrup, served on a white plate.
5 from 3 votes
Prep Time 1 hour
Cook Time 30 minutes
Course Dessert
Cuisine American
Servings 10 Slices
Calories 755 kcal

Ingredients
  

For the cake:

  • Boxed Carrot Cake Mix
  • 1 cup of grated carrots
  • 3/4 cup buttermilk
  • 3 eggs
  • 1/3 cup vegetable oil
  • 1 tsp cinnamon
  • 1/2 tsp nutmeg
  • 1/4 tsp ground ginger
  • 1/4 cup crushed pineapple drained

For the Cream Cheese Frosting:

  • 1/2 cup butter softened
  • 8 oz cream cheese softened
  • 1 tsp vanilla extract
  • 4 cups powdered sugar
  • 1/2 choped pecans

Instructions
 

Prepare Cake:

  • Preheat oven to 350 degrees
  • Combine Cake Mix, cinnamon, ginger & nutmeg together
  • Add grated carrots, eggs, buttermilk & oil to dry ingredients and mix well
  • Add to, two prepared 8" cake pans and bake 30 – 40 minutes until toothpick inserted near the center comes out clean.

Prepare Frosting:

  • In a bowl, beat together butter, cream cheese, and vanilla until smooth.
  • Gradually add powedered sugar and beat until creamy.

Assemble Cake

  • Once cake has cooled, decorate with frosting as desired
  • Add crushed pecans on top and drizzle with maple syrup if desired

Nutrition

Calories: 755kcal
Keyword cake
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